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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 20.06.2025 04:51

How does one succeed in life?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

What disgusts you?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Does not procrastinate.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

What are some signs he is deeply in love with you?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

At what stage in your life did you realize, "No, I can't do this any more" and walk out? Why?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

I told my 13-year-old daughter that she should never start a fight, but has my permission to end it. She got suspended for ending a fight that some other girl picked with her by hitting her then retreating. How do I handle the school’s response?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Hangs out with loser friends.

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If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

When Chinese people see my pets, will they think of it as their food?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Procrastinates a lot.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

If you were a writer for HBO, how would you rewrite the final season of Game of Thrones?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

What can I do when I'm ugly on both outside and inside? What do I do? Cut myself off from the world to make everyones lives better? I'm a monster. I hurt feelings, and I say what was said to me. I feel like I'm nothing but a burden. What do I do?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Why did you put a guy’s dick in your mouth the first time?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Why am I dreaming of people I've never seen before?

Ask yourself:

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Is Daenerys Targaryen really the most beautiful woman, or is everyone saying that just to flatter her?

That's it for today.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

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“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Is marijuana bad for you?

Making more friends is a goal.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Do not set goals—set systems.

What I need from you?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.